If Any Of These Apply To Your Life
You're In The Right Place

– You feel like you’re just barely treading water.
– Overwhelm, anxiety, and/or despair are a constant companion.
– You have burnout, but there’s no relief in sight.
– Your emotions have become erratic and hurt others.
– You can’t spend any time on projects that interest you because of other things that need to be done.
– You feel like there’s something wrong with you.
– You often feel that there has to be more to life.
– Yo’ve tried so many things, but nothing ever works.

If Any Of These
Apply To Your Life
You're In The Right Place

– You feel like you’re just barely treading water.
– Overwhelm, anxiety, and/or despair are a constant companion.
– You have burnout, but there’s no relief in sight.
– Your emotions have become erratic and hurt others.
– You can’t spend any time on projects that interest you because of other things that need to be done.
– You feel like there’s something wrong with you.
– You often feel that there has to be more to life.
– You’ve tried so many things, but nothing ever works.

You Are Not Alone

My Life Was Miserable

I’ve experienced every one of these pains. But somehow I never gave up. 

Desperation had me grasping at anything that could possibly give the relief, happiness, and fulfillment that I wanted so badly.

Each failed attempt had a hidden lesson with useful information. Eventually, I realized that I’d stumbled onto how things work and what to focus on.

I want to share what I’ve learned so you can avoid the same mistakes and find your path much faster than I did.

My Life Was Miserable

I’ve experienced every one of these pains. But somehow I never gave up. 

Desperation had me grasping at anything that could possibly give the relief, happiness, and fulfillment that I wanted so badly.

Each failed attempt had a hidden lesson with useful information. Eventually, I realized that I’d stumbled onto how things work and what to focus on.

I want to share what I’ve learned so you can avoid the same mistakes and find your path much faster than I did.

Hi, I'm Carmela

About Me

I’m in the process of converting to a nomadic lifestyle with my better half and 3 cats. They probably hate us. 

Engineer by “real” education standards, but who cares. I love exploring and learning. Ahh, research… yes, I’m a nerd. And I do this thing with making crazy trip itineraries. 

My interests are a bit out of control. So I have another blog around the things that don’t fit here. 

Come visit if you’re into travel, life skills, personal experiments, adventures, art and cool stories. 

Hi, I'm Carmela

I’m in the process of converting to a nomadic lifestyle with my better half and 3 cats. They probably hate us. 

Engineer by “real” education standards, but who cares. I love exploring and learning. Ahh, research… yes, I’m a nerd. And I do this thing with making crazy trip itineraries. 

My interests are a bit out of control. So I have another blog around the things that don’t fit here. 

Come visit if you’re into travel, life skills, personal experiments, adventures, art and cool stories. 

Building Blocks For Fulfillment

Your identity is the key to fulfilling every other aspect of your life. 

The easiest entry point to becoming self aware is through learning your personality type

I have studied several personality systems over the years but nothing gripped me as much as Depth Typology which expands on MBTI. 

I’m putting extra focus on INFP content right now because of the work and progress I’ve had with my mom. 

Health is going to be the initial area of focus here because of the hang-ups I experienced with my mom trying to work on type development alone. 

I noticed common problems and patterns among many individuals, including myself. 

If you work on this area, you’ll be amazed at the impact it’ll have on other areas of your life. 

My best advice, start cleansing

This category bleeds into a lot of the rest because understanding something is a necessary starting point. 

When you understand the components of something and why and how things work, you can really move forward. 

Each phase moves you higher and higher in development of an area. And the more you know, the more confident you become. 

(I’ll list the other areas of fulfillment once we get to that point. 

There’s a lot to cover in the identity and wellness categories.)

Ready To Cracking The Code?